Show them this website and tell them you are interested in making a sex tape. Many couples mention making a sex tape while they are having sex. Try taling about hiring an erotic videographer and watch your partner's reaction. You'll never know, if you never ask.
You might also try taping yourself with your own camera and then discuss the possibility of having someone else in the room to record your erotic video adventures.
Making a sex tape is a wonderful birthday or anniversary present. However we require all participants to give us written consent before we arrive. No surprises! We do have some sexy, erotic videography gift cards that make a wonderful way to express your gift to your partner. Contact us for details.